Embracing Your Unique Creativity: Overcoming Self-Imposed Limitations

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“Oh! You are so creative.” I’ve often heard these words, and they catch me off guard each time. What have I done to warrant such a compliment? I can’t even draw a straight line, and my singing and dancing skills are best kept within the confines of my shower.

The notion of being labelled “creative” seemed reserved for those with artistic prowess, a rare gift that I believed eluded me.

But, am I underestimating my abilities? Perhaps. It took reading the book“Creative Confidence” by Tom and David Kelley to challenge the myth I had embraced — that creativity is an exclusive club, a sanctuary for the chosen few.

Childhood Revisited: Rekindling the Natural Creativity Within

To me, creativity had always been synonymous with artistic talent — drawing, painting, dancing, or any skill that set individuals apart. However, the Kelley brothers’ book unfolded a broader and more universal definition of creativity, shattering my preconceived notions.

As Children, we were all inherently creative.Kindergarten days were filled with unbridled experimentation and play, free from fear and rejection.

Recently, my 2-year-old niece demonstrated this innate creativity.

Just last week, my 2-year-old niece visited me along with her parents. I offered her soft toys to play with. Since she liked elephants, I gifted her a soft toy elephant. While she was playing with the elephant, I offered her some biscuits to eat.

While playing with her toy elephant, she fed it biscuits before indulging in her snack-a simple act, yet profound in its innocence and lack of concern for societal judgement.

While she was trying different ways to feed the toy elephants, there was no shame or fear that people around her were laughing.

I will not be surprised if encouraging such behaviour can, in the future, lead to the child becoming more creative and innovative and coming up with toys that can be faithful companions to kids.

The Dr Tanu Effect: Power of Creative Problem-Solving

According to the Kelley brothers, creativity is not a rare gift but a natural aspect of human thinking and behaviour.Growing up, the fear of rejection and shame often stifles these creative instincts.

There are some individuals who embrace creative confidence easily. I had read a story about a young doctor who used her creative and innovative thinking to solve a major healthcare problem in a remote village.

Dr Tanu, a young medico after her graduation from a medical college in Mumbai, decided to work in a remote village in for two years. While working in the Village primary health care center, Dr Tanu realized that pregnant women in the village suffered from anaemia and iodine deficiency.

She immediately arranged for iron tablets, vitamins and iodine patches and distributed them among the women.

After a few days, her staff in the hospital informed her that women are refusing to take the pill because they fear that these medicines would make the newborn babies dark in color.

Dr Tanu was disappointed. Very soon she had an idea. She had seen that all women in the village were religious and orthodox and believed that every married women should wear the Bindi (a small round decorative mark on the forehead ,traditionally considered as a sign of marriage in India) on their forehead.

Dr Tanu, used her creative thinking to address the healthcare issue. Faced with resistance to traditional medicine, she devised a unique solution — an iodine patch disguised as a bindi.Dr Tanu’s creativity didn’t just solve a health problem, it showcased the importance of understanding cultural nuances in patient care.

Conclusion and takeaways

In conclusion, as Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “Do the things you fear, and the death of fear is certain.”

This philosophy applies not only to major life decisions but also to everyday challenges. By embracing our creative mindset, we can tackle problems big and small.

The Kelley brothers aptly describe the unleashing of creativity as removing the emergency brake from a car. It’s about freeing ourselves from self-imposed limitations and allowing our creative side to flourish.

As Tori Amos wisely puts it, “There’s room for everybody on the planet to be creative and conscious if you are your own person. If you’re trying to be like somebody else, then there isn’t.”

Embrace your unique creativity ,break free from the myth, and discover the limitless possibilities within.

Sadananda’s Bond with Ants: A Tale of Empathy and Connection

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I love reading short stories by Satyajit Ray, the famous Bengali author. Apart from being a renowned filmmaker, he was also a respected writer. In 1978, Oxford University awarded him its DLitt degree. He passed away in Calcutta in April 1992.

One of Ray’s captivating stories is “The Small World of Sadananda,” featuring a 13-year-old protagonist who possesses a remarkable sensitivity and moral compass beyond his years.

Nurturing Connections: Sadananda’s Relationship with Ants

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Sadananda’s deep connection with nature is evident as he genuinely fascinatedly observes the behaviours of crows, grasshoppers, and ants.

He then goes on to narrate how once an ant had fallen into the water and to rescue him when he was observing it, it seemed more like a man to him, ‘as if the ant was not an ant any more but a man.

 His empathy towards a drowning ant, perceiving it almost as a fellow human, underscores his profound appreciation for all living beings.

Throughout the narrative, Sadananda nurtures a bond with the ants inhabiting his window sill, engaging in care and communication that transcends conventional understanding.

He even feeds them sugar. When the number of ants in the house grows, and the adults are out to kill them, Sadananda does everything possible to stop the killing and save them.

My Childhood Reflections: Squirrels and Chameleons as Teachers of Relationship Dynamics

Reading this story evokes memories of my childhood, spent amidst the natural splendour of a sprawling garden and a majestic neem tree.

We had a vast garden surrounding our house and a big courtyard in the front, my favourite place for reading or doing homework. I also enjoyed reading under the big neem tree, where the pleasant breeze kept me calm.

Observing squirrels and chameleons navigate their surroundings with agility and resourcefulness left an indelible impression on me. These experiences instilled in me a deep respect for the harmony and interconnectedness of all living beings.

Reflecting on Sadananda’s relationship with ants and my childhood observations of squirrels, I am reminded of the valuable lessons they impart about relationships and community.

Embracing Harmony and Community: Nature’s Insights into Relationships

Like ants and squirrels, humans thrive in communities where cooperation and mutual support are paramount. By nurturing relationships with others and embracing the community spirit, we can achieve common goals and navigate life’s challenges with resilience and grace.

Moreover, the mindfulness and presence exhibited by ants and squirrels serve as poignant reminders of the importance of fully engaging in our relationships and surroundings.

By cultivating a deeper connection with nature and preserving the natural world, we can forge healthier relationships with each other and the planet we call home.

In essence, Sadananda’s stories and lessons from observing ants and squirrels underscore the profound significance of relationships beyond human-to-human interactions.

Empathy, compassion, and reverence for nature can enrich our lives and foster a more harmonious existence with all living beings.

Ruth DeFries’s Perspective on Relationships

In reflecting on the profound lessons learned from Sadananda’s relationship with ants and my childhood observations of squirrels, Ruth DeFries’s quote from “What Would Nature Do?” resonates deeply: “As birds form flocks and ants carry food to nests using bottom-up principles of communication and collective action, people can solve their own problems.”

Sadananda’s compassionate interactions with ants exemplify the bottom-up principles of communication and collective action observed in nature.

Despite being ridiculed by others, Sadananda demonstrates a deep understanding of the interconnectedness of all living beings and the importance of fostering community and cooperation.

Similarly, my childhood observations of squirrels navigating obstacles and adapting to their environment highlight the innate wisdom found in nature. By observing the behaviours of birds, ants, and squirrels, humans can glean valuable insights into problem-solving and community-building.

Conclusion-Nurturing Relationships with Nature and Each Other

Just as birds form flocks and ants work together to carry food to their nests, humans can use communication and collective action to address their own challenges.

By fostering empathy, cooperation, and mutual support within our communities, we can harness the power of collective action to overcome obstacles and create a more harmonious world.

DeFries’s quote encapsulates the timeless wisdom inherent in nature and the potential for humans to learn from the cooperative behaviours of birds, ants, and other living beings.

By embracing these principles, we can solve our problems and cultivate a more sustainable and compassionate society.